Thursday, 26 November 2009
Only Guru Can Ask Anyone To Recite Sat Naam
Monday, 23 November 2009
Dealing with the desire for money
Ik Oankar Sat Naam Ji Fateh Ji
Dandaut Parvaan Karna Ji
I love the way you explain everything. It hits home because I've experienced so many things you mention in your emails, which helps me make sense of things and that is the greatest help. Thank you a million times for sharing your thoughts, your experiences.
Even in the message below, where you mention that when we meditate, maya attacks harder at us and the deepest desires come true. Even Dhan Dhan Dassan Dass ji told me that maya is showing its full colors to us (family) because we've been blessed with Naam.
My first love from high school had been my deep desire for long time. We were together in high school but it didn't work out and we didn't talk to each other for 9 years. But all this time she was the one I wanted to be with. So finally I gathered the courage to ask her again after 9 years, and we were together again because she had some feelings for me too. I couldn't believe it, I was with the girl of my dreams (my deep deep desire). And just like you mentioned, first we see heaven and then hell. It was heaven for around 3 months and everything seemed wonderful and then it all turned into hell as she realized that we're not compatible. Hell lasted much longer than heaven did. I understood my mistake, learned from it and that deep desire was finally GONE! I realized it too and thanked God for getting that desire out. So what you've said makes perfect sense!!
The real reason for this message is to seek some guidance on the other deep desire, which is money. As meditation and naam simran gets better, I am able to understand the mind more and more. I now understand its powers, and how to make use of those powers. Like setting goals, using Law of attraction and changing your life to however you want. I have not done anything like this, but I understand how it works. I used to have limiting beliefs, which are all gone pretty much. I feel like nothing is impossible and anything is achievable with the power of the mind. I've always felt like I am not using my full potential and that I am not making as much as I am worth. So, now my obvious desire is to use my mind's capability to make more money.
What confuses me, because I am a fool and don't understand anything, is that on one hand it seems like I can now live my life more proactively and more positively, on the other hand it seems like maya is attacking and making me chase my desire for more money. So I don't know what to do. I don't understand if I should just ignore what I've understood about mind and not use it for any personal gains or try to improve my life and live more proactively. I definitely don't want to go through another heaven/hell cycle. But how can one tell if it's maya attacking and showing me ways to fulfill my desire for making max use of my potential? I keep wondering where I should just keep going like this, staying in an entry level job or use my abilities to better my career (make more money)?
Thanks again a million times! Please share this with others.
REPLY:
Dearest Veer Ji,
Friday, 20 November 2009
Re: [Gurmukhs] Meditation Course
Dandauth Bandhna ji.
QUESTION:What is Panch Shabad Anhad Naad that Gurbani talks about? I have been hearing some sounds in my ears.
ANSWER: The divine music that Gurbani describes – Panch Shabad Anhad Naad is not heard in the ears, it is not a Kanni rus, it is the real divine amrit that is heard in the Dassam Duaar (Tenth Gate) "Anhad Shabad Dassam Duaar Vajjyeaa Taa Amrit Naam Chuaayeea Thaa" and this divine music is heard on a continous basis – Akhand Kirtan – that is what it is – non-stop continous stream of music and this is a very high levels of Gur Parsaad which comes in when the Bandgi goes into Karam Khand and all the Bajjar Kappaats are open including Dassam Duaar, when all Sat Sarovars are activated and ulluminated and the Amrit – Naam Simran goes into Rom Rom (each cell of the body) and the entire body gets filled with amrit."
SatNaam Ji,
Dandauth Bandhna ji.Hi Harjit VeerjiI was wondering if I can ask you a question. What is Naad? I've read it alot in baani but I don't know what it is.Thank you for the emails that you send out. It is really what I need to help me remember BabaJi and Pita Parmeshwar.I know your busy, so please forgive me for troubling you.Dust at your feet.Ishbir
Sent from my iPhone
[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]SatNaam Ji,
Dandauth Bandhna ji.
With Guru Ji's kirpa, we have uploaded the meditation course we ran at our
house a few years ago.
There are Level 1 and Level 2 courses with a total of 9 lessons recorded as
MP3.
It is a very easy way to learn to relax and to focus the mind using guided
imagery and soothing music. We have had very good response from past
students.
Each lesson has an introductory talk , a guided meditation and a discussion
at the end. If you would like to follow it
you can send me your experiences/questions by email.
You will need a few hours to do each lesson, may Dassan Dass ji bless you to
work through it. It will really help you as it helped those students who
came on the course.
www.box.net/meditation
Dust of your feet
Harjit
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Thursday, 19 November 2009
Wednesday, 18 November 2009
Dealing with parents not approving of our relationship
thankyou so much for emailing, its really good to be able to put down in words how we feel, otherwise the mind
can really grind us down. We can really relate to what you are feeling through what has happened to us and our sister
and other people we know. The first thought that comes to us is that "why do parents have to be so narrow minded?" "why cant they be happy when their child falls in love and is happy and wants to express that?" Why do they want to put an innocent child through the grindstone? What is more important to them than the happiness of their child?
they want to choose for you in order to protect their reputation and status in society.
However, the way the go about it isnt very good. They fall into the same trap that they dont know how to communicate with their children. So they revert to "do as we say or dont come back" typical indian film drmatics. Our parents did the same thing with us as well!! So because you are kind, you can forgive them for their lack of communication skills and just appreciate their good intentions towards you.
It is important to do this, otherwise you will start seeing your parents as your enemies and if they make you chose between them or who you love, you may chose them this time and next time, but the third or fourth time you will chose the one you love and run away from your parents because you are sick of their controlling nature. We have expereinced this too. But really you dont have to play their game of choose us or him.
You have to keep focused on the good points of your parents. when they say hurtful things like that, you just say to them "yes i understand that this must be very upsetting for you that is why you say those things. But I still love you mum/dad."
If you do really love this guy and he is good to you and his family is good to you too etc, then you know that you dont want to have a secret relationship, but would like yours and his parents blessings. So you dont want to do things in secret which will give your parents more reasons not to like him. But you can accept that it might take your parents some time to accept him and your decision. So you can work on that overtime in a loving way. Let their negativity go over your head, keep returning positivity.
Baba Ji said to us that the smile on his childrens face is his happiness, not pleasing society. Baba ji said that God is love and the spontaneous love that appears in your heart for another person is the closest God comes into this Earth. so what you are feeling is not bad and God is on your side. However, this is your Karma playing out - do you follow your heart or do you follow your family and society. At your age your parents have too much control over you as you are used to them controlling you since you were a baby and to go against that is too emotionally difficult for you. Parents know that and use emotional blackmail to get you to do what they want. They wont give you their blessings or approval and you feel you cant do anything without their approval. Its a tough place to be. But its all part of growing up, to make your own way in the world, to make a stand for your feelings, to put your heart first even if it means losing your family, friends and society and reputation. However, without a guru it is difficult to do without biting us emotionally, with a guru parents and everyone come around to it eventually.
Hope this is making sense.
Here is what we suggest:
1) what we would advise you to do is to free your mind of everything. Do your Simran and let go of everything - the guy, the parents, the studying, the guilty conscience and anything else that is bothering you. Just relax and for 30 minutes tell your mind that nothing else matters and do your relaxation and simran. Regain your centre, your sense of balance, your peace.
2) Prioritise what is important in your life at this moment eg
First - God-Guru-Sangat as in point 1 - stay centred.
Second - studying and catching up what you have neglected
Third - keeping peace at home so you can study
Fourth- your relationship with this guy. No harm taking more time to get to know him, plus there's no pressure on you to make big decisions overnight. If you are destined to be with him then nothing can stop you, and if you aren't destined to be with him then nothing you do will make it happen. that is why baba ji says KARMA OVERRULES EVERYTHING. Andif you are to be with him for the rest of your life, another 6 months of taking it slowly so it doesnt effect your peace of mind and your peace at home is not a big sacrifice.
It is always good to listen to how you feel. If you dont feel right about doing something NEVER EVER DO IT. Plus when you are not in a balanced peaceful state of mind, NEVER EVER make big decisions. Because they will be the wrong choices. (Talking from expereince!!) So trust in God-Guru and be patient and know that everything happens when it is supposed to happen, not when we want it to happen. So NEVER EVER CHASE MAYA. Chasing desires is chasing MAYA, it only causes pain in the end. When you trust in god-guru and find peace in your heart, then everything will come to you - that is how kind Guru is. You never have to chase anything or anyone, that is the power of Naam. It makes you into a beautiful flower to which the bees come. The flower never chases the bees. You dont need to run after any guy in secret. You dont need to do anything in secret. Get rid of fear, trust in God, be true to your heart, be patient and watch and wait to see how things turn out.
God bless you.
dust of your feet
HArjit
Tuesday, 17 November 2009
Soul Mates ?
The following was sent in reply to a question about meeting your soul mate and both parties feeling strong attraction even though they may already be married:
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Forget about soul mates, Baba ji said that souls dont merge with each other, only into God. What we have with other souls is Karma. And whenever you have an interaction with someone else its due to your past karma or making new karma. And where you have a big attraction its probably because you were married/partners/realted before. You have the attraction because your left over karma with each other has to play out. Baba ji explained that law of karma overrules everything. So that means karma has to play out regardless of the story of "he is married" etc. Karma doesnt care about man-made things that we have , wether that means the other person is married and made promises to be faithful to his wife (so why are there so many affairs? - because karma overrules everything).
How does Karma play? Through desire. Attractions is all part of wanting and desiring something of the world. Once we have desire then we work on making it come true , which leads to all the interactions (monetary, time, words, gifts, kissing, sex etc) - which is basically all of the give and take that was due to each other accroding to past karma. Along the way we will end up making new karma as well, to repay on another day in future. So that in a nutshell is how we are all repaying our dues so that the LAW OF KARMA prevails. No one and absolutely no -one escapes their Karma. It doesnt matter how educated you are, or how religious you are, or how high your morals are, when desire takes over all that goes out of the window so that KARMA can be played out, plus consequences.
The only way to escape from our Karma our have it reduced is through the eternal blessings through the grace of our God-Guru, to give up desire, to ask for forgivness, to not follow the desire, not even the logic of the mind which will try and tell you it is not desire but hukam. Actually the LAW OF KARMA is one of the Divine Laws (hukam). But the direct Hukam of God in you which we call intuition is never selfish, is never thinking of our own happiness and our own attractions, it is always thinking of the benefit of others and not causing pain to others (unless their pain is caused due to their false beliefs being shattered by Truth).
Hope that makes sense.
Also when you are doing more simran and meditation as you are, things you desire deep down will come to you thick and fast. The things you desire will be in any area where you have unfullfilled wishes eg relationships or money are the main ones i found. So that is how you know its a test. Its always a test. You always have the choice to follow the desire to get it out of your system, but whilst doing so your spiritual elevation that you have workes so hard at gaining will drop drastically i.e. you will chase heaven (pleasure) enjoy it for a while, but eventually end up seeing the hell (pain) of it as well. Then when you come out of it you may once again turn towards Bhagti to find the Truth again. And that is the cycle we go around and around and around in.
Its all just evolution of our consciousness, to get out of desires, to become desire free - either by following the desires until we feel the pain, or letting them go because we have surrendered to our Guru and to keep going forward.
So how to protect yourself from it?
Pray to Guru ji to say "I am full of desires, full of five thieves, I fully accept all my mistakes, please forgive us and keep us always under your feet SatGuru ji. Mind is Your, body is Your, Wealth is yours, nothing is mine, just give us Naam, Seva and Bandagi guru ji."
And then inside yourself you ahve to decide 100% I dont want this. And It doesnt matter if I end up being lonely or alone or never find anyone else (etc and all the other things the mind tries to tell us so we wont give it up).
dust of your feet
Harjit
Re: [Truth] Why you find it difficult to concentrate/PLEASE HELP
SatNaam jee Sada Satguru hai Satnaam jee
On 11/17/09, wrote:
GURU PYAREY HARJIT JI,SATNAAM JI KA KHALSA SATNAAM JI KI FATEH..Yes U are right , but I need ur blessings and the BLESSINGS OF SADH SANGAT ji TO BLESS ME,AS beside my continued efforts,NAAM SIMRAN HAS become really difficult as I cannot concenterate on this ..so please prey for me..the NEEECH ..LONG BACK I read in SANGAT ARTICLES THAT if WE PREY LIKE MAAYIN KAAMIE KARODHI,LOBHI MOHIE AHANKAARIE APNEY SAAREY GUNAHA KABOOL KARDAN HAAN JO MAAYIN JO JAANEY , ANJAANEY SAAREY PISHLEY JANAMAA VICH KITEY HAN..SO GUR PYAREY SAAD SANGAT JI PLEASE PREY FOR ME SO THAT I CAN CONTINUE ON THIS PATH.G S K
The reason why when many of you sit for Naam Simran it is difficult to concentrate is because Maya
becomes very active. Maya knows that there is somebody sitting there
trying to win over her. That there is someone who is trying to become her
enemy and trying to get out of her influence. That there is someone who
doesn't want to remain her servant any more. The only way to get out of
Maya's grip is with GurParsaad. If we are blessed with GurParsaad then we
are the very fortunate ones and should never take it for granted. We need to
remain humble and remember that it has taken many Janams to reach this
level. But, even reaching this level if we do not serve GurParsaad, then it is
nothing but foolishness. When we stay focused on serving GurParsaad
then Maya will not be able to distract us and do any harm to our Bandgi.
We continue to move forward until we win over Maya.(from Sukhmani Katha page 244 by Dassan Dass Ji).__._,_.___MARKETPLACE.
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Re: [Truth] Dhan Dhan Guru Nanak
Dear blessed Sangat jee,Dandout Bandana, forever at your blessed feet,I had a really beautiful experience this morning and i thought it would be nice to share this with the sangat. In the early hours of the morning i woke up very suddenly, almost in a panicked feeling that someone had entered the room. I was then wide awake and i started doing my simran, suddenly i felt a really strong presence of Guru Nanak Dev Ji, it was a really soft, peaceful presence, it was loving and comforting......He stood very clearly by the side of the bed near Jaspal.He spoke to me in Bani, he said "naanak nadharee nadhar nihaal ||38||
O Nanak, the Merciful Lord, by His Grace, uplifts and exalts them. ||38||It sounded like the angels were singing it, i felt truly blessed and grateful, i felt a surge of love flow through me for Babaji, i felt Guru Nanak and Babaji are the same and i felt deeply grateful that we are blessed with naam. Only in the true naam would Guru Nanak come. How lucky!!!! How lucky and blessed............dhan dhan Babaji for the blessing us with the true naam, for constanly supporting us and being patient with us..........My wonderful Guru, my beautiful Guru, my true Satguru...........i love you deeply with every cell in my body, i yearn for your charan feet.Guru Nanak then placed his hand on my heart and he filled up our hirda with love and naam.............Around me their were garlands of flowers falling everywhere, i really felt like waking Jaspal up to say, look can you see them, it's beautiful and amazing..................He placed a garland around Jaspal, and he said ;"naanak bhagathaa sadhaa vigaas ||
O Nanak, the devotees are forever in bliss.
suniai dhookh paap kaa naas ||8||
Listening-pain and sin are erased. ||8||"He said that i am always here, all around you both.........tell Jaspal i am always with him.........After that i felt myself sliiping into smadhi and i was knocked out for the rest of the night. When i woke this morning, i could still hear the Japji Sahib being recieted in my ears. I have shared this with the sangat because i wanted to share how blessed and lucky we are to have the true naam in this day and age. Please keep doing your simran, good deeds and giving your all to your Guru, your bhagti is all being noticed, nothing ever goes unnoticed, afterall...............it all the Satguru's grace.Dhan Dhan Par Brahm Parmeshar, Dhan dhan Babaji, dhan dhan Sant Ji, dhan dhan all the Guru''s and bhagats of all ages, dhan dhan sangat ji, dhan dhan dhan satnam.................Please keep us at your feet, we belong there forever, please forgive us for any mistakes.All our loveNamjeevan
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Sleep and Heart Attacks - Important
Sat Naam Ji Dandauth Bandhna Ji Regarding the article below, we agree: on this path we have struggled to get up at Amrit Vela and over the years have tried various sleep patterns. We have personally found that lack of sleep has caused us to be very irritable and angry and stressed and tired during the following day. Also since we have started excercising we have noticed we need to sleep another hour to recover. It is not eaasy trying to do amritvela and also then to stay awake all day. We know Dassan Dass ji and others on this path have been blessed and have conquored their sleep and cand o with little sleep. But what we have fond works best for us is to go to sleep by 9pm and to get up around 3.30 / 4am, which gives enough time to do 2.5 hrs of Simran. This works better than sleeping at 9pm and getting up at 12.30 to do simran , which we only end up falling asleep in, then going to bed again at 4am till 7am. Best is to have continuous sleep from 9 to 3.30/4 and do morning amritvela and singing kirtan/gurbani at the end, plus yoga if you have time. Feel really good and happy after that. We would advise everyone to listen to their body as well as praying to SatGuru ji for blessings to get up earlier and on a daily basis. dust of your feet Harjit
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Monday, 16 November 2009
Why you find it difficult to concentrate
The reason why when many of you sit for Naam Simran it is difficult to concentrate is because Maya
becomes very active. Maya knows that there is somebody sitting there
trying to win over her. That there is someone who is trying to become her
enemy and trying to get out of her influence. That there is someone who
doesn't want to remain her servant any more. The only way to get out of
Maya's grip is with GurParsaad. If we are blessed with GurParsaad then we
are the very fortunate ones and should never take it for granted. We need to
remain humble and remember that it has taken many Janams to reach this
level. But, even reaching this level if we do not serve GurParsaad, then it is
nothing but foolishness. When we stay focused on serving GurParsaad
then Maya will not be able to distract us and do any harm to our Bandgi.
Friday, 13 November 2009
Nanak Nirankaar
Thursday, 12 November 2009
Fwd: Chat with taranjeet singh
TARANJEET: satnaam we love u jee
just a selfish kuta
HARJIT: we love you too ji!
HARJIT: When Dassan Dass ji asked us to put a donation box on the website, we thought it would put people off as they think we are after money, but money has come and books have been printed, website has been translated so Dasan Dass ji knows what we do not, and we have to trust. So we hope sangat will trust His email about taking this chance to do seva to uplift their soul in this lifetime.
TARANJEET: yes jee he is living God
God in him has taken over him
HARJIT: he is God living in the heart!
TARANJEET: Now no more Surinder jee is there only Dassan Dass is there who him self is Lord
HARJIT: You know "Mr Singh" ji on the email is turning into Dassan Dass ji as well.
TARANJEET: it is the quality of apars paras (philosopher's stone making another philosopher's stone).
HARJIT: He is DHAN DHAN.
He has helped us so much as well.
TARANJEET: yes u are dhan dhan he is dhan dhan dandouth at his feet.
HARJIT: he is a really wonderful soul.
TARANJEET: sant charan maath hamara prabh satguru sada saath tihara
HARJIT: he has grabbed maya by the throat and told ego to shut up
TARANJEET: ek naam sat sada kahara
mit jaaye sab ve mahara
HARJIT: he is shinging radiant like the sun. He asks God for more tests and more seva so he can prove himself again and again.
He is fearless, he is desire free, he is so kind.
TARANJEET: may this worm gets it warmth by grace
HARJIT: he signs his emails - son, slave and servant of Dassan Dass
TARANJEET: dhan dhan
satnaam
satnaam satnaam satnaam
HARJIT: we were feeling tired of seva and simran for a few weeks, he sent us an email saying he sensed animosity from me. We thought we had none, but started thinking about what he said and realised deep down inside our subconscious we resented many things and he was right. We told him our state, he was compassionate and kind, he sent us a beautiful message from Dhan Baba Nanak ji telling us not to dwell in the past, to release our animosity, to do joyous simran and to realise this is our test. We felt warmth and light inside us, like we were being lifted up into the sunshine and the dark clouds were disappearing. Since then we have got a lot better again. We are so blessed in this sangat of swans that Baba Ji calls Sat Naam Parivaar - Sat Naam Family.
We fall down and they pick us up, all we have to do is pray at the holy feet, to tell them the pains and troubles that are holding us back from doing worship of Sat Naam.
TARANJEET: yes u are satnaam family
we are a dog at ur family just feed us left over naam
satnaam
satnaam
Monday, 9 November 2009
Meditation Course
Re: [Truth] thank you to Almighty and to everyone
Satnaam SatnaamjiDandauth Bandhana ji,
We bow our head to all of your holy feet in the satsangat.Many many many thanks(no ending) to the One and to everyone for praying for Hema ji.
I have no idea when the scanning took place but as we get to know from a friend who brought them to us twice to our place and prayed for her,called up and inform us according to the doctor after they did the scanning on her forehead where she had tumor growing on her forehead.The doctor was surprise to find out that the tumor dissappeared just like that.They could not find a dot of the tumor during the scanning.Before the scanning took place they have already stop coming until now and inform the person who took them here saying that they are not convince here and they expected something like miracle to take place.We have nothing to say it is their choice but still keep on praying for her.After the person called and inform about this i only know one thing God it is you who have heal her and thru all your beautiful children prayed for her.Countless countless thanks to Babaji dassan dass ji,Harjit ji and to all beloved satsangat prayed for her and we bow our head to all of your feets.No words to say.All glory and praises to HIM.
dust of all feet
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I will not remain silent in fear of mortals
Friday, 6 November 2009
Overcome desires for team winning
you ahve asked Dassan Dass ji, but we would like to answer you.
You have answered your own question. When you have hopes in the world of Maya then you have either short term happiness
if it happens, or sadness if it doesnt. Gurbani teaches us to put all of our hopes into SatNaam only. Only SatNaam gives us permanent happiness. Anything that causes us sadness, despair or ony temporary happiness is false and yes you are right we have to move our mind away from those things.
Watch these things for fun, dont take them seriously, at the end of the day all sports are invented to keep the mind busy. That's why they are called pastimes ..to pass the time. Its just a group of people chasing a ball all day long - why are you letting it effect your mind? Place your mind at the lotus feet of the SatGuru and pass your time doing SatNaam SatNaam then you will never be sad or disappointed.
Dust of your feet
HArjit
Respected dassan das ji ,
Kotan kot Dandauth bandhna ji at you lotus feet.
Satnaam Satnaam Sada Satnaam
SInce longs time i have talked to you , I have left my old company and joined new job so my email has chnaged.
Whenever i feel something to ask you are my only hope.
yesterday i was watching Cricket match , i was despearate that India should win and sachin should stay till end.
I don't know how many Ardass i have done . I was sure that India will win but at the end i was very much disaapointed when Sachin Got out and i could not sleep properly . I was so much disturbed and funny thing is this loss of India has no impact on my life but still i am so sad and it always ahppens whenever india loses.
I have my friend who did not watch cricket and he didn't bothered whether India won or not.
I was thinking that it means How happy are persons who don't like cricket at least they are not sad if India loses and there are persons like me who spend many days in disappointement when india loses.
So what i am confused , what should i do . SHould i stop watching cricket and eveygame where there is loss and defeat.
I don't know please guide me dassan dass ji
Singh
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