Getting out of emotional control from our families.

SatNaam Ji

 

What is it with our parents trying to control us through fear and guilt?  We were never able to do anything without feeling that our parents approved, even though logically we knew we could do what we want, but we couldn't live with the emotional guilt of them not approving. Then they knew that and used that to control us, they knew we wanted their approval, but they wouldnt give it and that tormented us. Only with Baba ji's kirpa were we able to get out of that, same with our sister.  But we had to face our fears, go through the emotional turmoil, but when we knew what we were doing was blessed by Baba ji, then we faced our parents and wife and so on. Risked losing them all, risked losing their approval and acceptance, wen through the emotional turmoil, the insults and their anger.  Dont get me wrong, we got angry and egotistical and hateful too, but only with Baba ji's kirpa we managed to cool down quickly, pray for them, forgive them, wash their feet in our meditation, touch their feet in reality and play the waiting and watching game of patience. Now in the end the dust has settled, Dad and mum say it to everyone "our kids are not under our control" - like that is a bad thing. But now we all live seperately and treat each other like grown ups, not them trying to control us any more - they know it wont work anymore - actually it has freed them of their MOH MAYA - bondage of emotional attachment. Freed them of their hopes and wishes for how their kids should turn out which tormented the and spoilt our relationships for the previous 15 years since they first started trying to get the kids married.

So if you are have had the Eternal blessings of Naam, then all that is ahead of you , facing all your demons - but take heart that SatGuru ji is holding your arm.  GurParsaadi Naam is sown in your mind now by the SatGuru and Naam is such a thing that it can have no other Master because it is God Himself. It will grow in you and push out ego and the other thieves, push out parents control, push out religions control, push out all the other masters that are currently running you.  Mera Sahib eko ha, eko ha, bhai eko ha ..My Master is the One, the One, O my brotherm my Master is the One.

Baba ji said the day we had the Naam we were 100% in ego and we have to change completely now - 0% ego 100% Naam - Love of Truth.

 

Dust of your feet

 

Harjit