Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam ji
When we shout at kids, we only teach them to shout back. Monkey see monkey do. Be firm but don't get mad. Our kids are our guru too. Because of them we see how much anger we still have, how much we lack in patience, how much desire we have for them to do what we want. God bless you. Kids are great, just say sorry to her, do Dandauth, explain to her nicely why you got upset. They don't hold grudges. You will feel better too.
Wait till you have two or three young kids all shouting and screaming and fighting.. And a spouse who gets very upset too.... Welcome to our world last night!
But so many times we have come back on a high from gur Sangat, to be faced with family stresses and we get involved and lose out amrit. This time we promised to guru we are not letting go of ik onkar Satnaam in our heart no matter what. Only do Dandauth to family, hug them, tell them once with love. Be firm with daya if she doesn't listen. But we are not losing this time.
Dandauth to all
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