Release Control - put your family in God's boat

Deen dyal bharosa tera sabh parivaar chario bera.  Just have faith  in God, put the family in God's boat.... Sant kabir ji

Release Control.

Thing to understand is that it's all about releasing control to God.      So what if the house is a mess,  or no one cooks,  or cleans, or empties the dishwasher...... Or even if kids fail at studies or whatever? ........ Look inside, why are we trying to control everything?

Parents keep trying to control everything  and everyone in the house.   But lose control of our own anger and say mean things.        If we really believe in God's power why don't we put our family in his boat and trust him to take care of the family?

If we release control, focus on seva as kind, COMPASSIONATE, loving parent, then we are teaching our kids through our actions,    otherwise they see we are hypocrites even in this Satnaam path we claim is so good. Tavleen said to us last year "you do so much simran but are so grumpy." Better we stop preaching to family and just become Satnaam, Truth Love and compassion.

And Let God be the parent of our family and let him guide them,  we just focus on what baba ji told us to do : Satnaam and seva of them as sangat.  We chose to doing bhagti,  not them. We have to change, not them. No point expecting them too or getting frustrated if they don't.

Trust God to be their parent.  Release Control and do bandagi.

Sada Dandauth
Meree mat thoree ram tu samrath vada
Thx to baba ji.