Dealing with angry husband and in laws

Satnaam

They are all hurt,  you have to let them release their pain,  stay calm, keep saying  dhan Dhan sukhee raho,  keep forgiving them.. Like Jesus on the cross.. Forgive them father for they know what they do.   Be compassionate to them,  for their soul is also crying as their 5 thieves are running them,  keep washing their feet,  stay lowest and kindest,  then no anger.  Then for your own hurt, don't fight back,  just pray to satguru ji and place all your dukh at their feet and keep praising and down satnaam.   You have to go through you interactions with others as per your karma,  but keep your deeds and thoughts highest.

With Each interaction ask,  what happened inside me,  and catch the five thieves inside you playing you.  Then beat them by doing the  opposite,  anger inside then forgive,  ego then wash their feet,  want to fight pray to guru instead,  attachment then burn it,  greed then give it away.

We only have to win over  our five thieves,  winning the argument or situation is not important,  if we won the argument but got angry,  then we actually lost our amrit.   So you have toboreserve the amrit and peace you have collected.

That's the only priority in bhagti.   Look inside at why thoughts of your mother in law are upsetting you.  Which thief is aggravating you,  what desire are you holding onto which is getting you entangled.  What false manmat is trapping you,  replace with gurmat.  Eg what's your worst for about your mother in law?  If that happened,  could you deal with it?  Remember your son is not your property, belongs to God and has his own karma and number of days with Mil and with your are already written,  and if he is going to be more with her or hubby,  that's his karma,  if you keep fighting it then you drain your amrit and still lose.  Get rid of moh,  then all is good.

When you drive out the darkness inside yourself,  as you have done,  then the darkness with try and get to you through those around you, and it gets into you when you let go of simran and have negative thoughts.

Each negative thought you have is a doorway for darkness to enter you.  Each positive thought is a doorway for goodness to enter you,  and each satnaam thought is a doorway for GOD to enter you.  And when you go into asans(body positions) or feel energy or light from your body, then that is God coming out of you blessing others.

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