SAT IK OANKAAR
SAT JYOT NIRANJAN NIRANKAAR
SAT PAARBRAHAM SARNAAEE
Tera hi Tera
sabh kush Tera
IK TU IK TU IK TU IK TU
IK TU IK TU IK TU IK TU
IK TU IK TU IK TU IK TU
IK TU IK TU IK TU IK TU
IK TU IK TU
SAMARATH SATGURU
JIHBA SACHA SIMREEAE
MANN TANN NIRMAL HOYE
Satnaam satnaam satnaam
satnaam satnaam satnaam
satnaam satnaam sda sda satnaam
Kot Kot dandout to sat in all ji.
Jo kush Verte sabh Tera BHAANA.
IK OANKAAR SATNAAM
KARTA POORAKH SATNAAM
NIRBHAO SATNAAM
NIRVAIR SATNAAM
AKAAL MOORAT SATNAAM
AJOONI SAIB ANG
GURPARSAAD SATNAAM
AMRIT NAAM JAPPO SABH BHAI
JANAM JANAM KI PIYAAS BHUJHAAEE
Satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam
Tu hi tu tu hi tu tu hi tu tu hi tu tu hi tu tu hi tu tu hi tu
Sat Baba ji (Daasaan ke Daas)
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REPLY TO KIRANDEEP FROM SUDHAKAR :
Mind says you are worst because it wants to become better than others so it compare with others. But Everybody's Bhag is different. Rose is a rose. Lilly is lilly. Both are beautiful. Stop compairing stay as you are beauty is here.
Mind says you are failure because it want to achieve something. Achievement or goal is always in future and future never comes. but love is now god is always present here and now. Drop the goal and joy is here.
Mind says you are ugly because it is not accepting what is as is as gift from nature It wants to become like somebody else. O mind All in one. One in all.
Mind says you earned nothing because it want to be king. Want to become no. 1. Forgetting real king of kings. Who gift us life is running the show. Mind is his servant. And he takes care of his servants well.
Mind says you are alone beacuse when it depends on anybody other than naam then it is disables it always need cruthes to depend on. Love and blessings is to give and thank those who accept it .
It's all mind game.
Lose it all to what is.
Satnaam
May Sat Parbrahm ji bless us to defeat the mind.
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By Gur Parsaad, I will do bandagi. I will do satnaam. I will do seva. I will not give up nor give in to this mind. I will no longer be a slave to the demons inside. I will not be fooled by the darkness. For I am from the Light. That is my way and life.
"I will make my heart into the gur gadhi, (throne of God) ." - Baba ji.
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Haumai nahee tuhitu haumai nahee tuhitu haumai nahee tuhitu haumai nahee tuhitu haumai nahee tuhitu haumai nahee tuhitu Dandauth bandhna baba ji maharaj ji Thx for everything pls forgive us. Bless us, keep us close. Everyday is a struggle when the darkness comes back and fools us. We are not capable of doing bandagi. It is not in our hands. Only mistakes and misdeeds and sins we are accumulating. Only your kind grace gives us another chance. Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam ji Dandauth bandhna ji.
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Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam
Why do we get angry? Because our ego got hurt; because someone didn't do something the way ego wanted. If we accept what is happening and then make efforts to improve our situation we won't lose our amrit to the anger demon.
Why did the ancient rishis curse people? Because they got angry at them? What got angry? Ego. So that sho s they hadn't conquered their ego. If we are doing all this sangat and seva and simran and having spiritual experiences or visions but we still get angry and think bad of others. Then we are no better than those ancient rishis. What have we actually learned from our satguru? Nothing. Not. One. Single. Thing. Why did baba nanak ji go further than the demigod and ancient saints? Because they conquered their ego with extreme acceptance of God's will. No anger. Only humbleness and love for all. Whenever we do more simran and seva and sangat, maya will come to test us. Ego will get hurt. How do we react? Stay humble like baba nanak ji and bless others? Or think we are someone and get offended and retaliate? Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam ji Dandauth bandhna ji
We have been angry about a lot of things in our life. It's not just a simple matter of trying to suppress our anger next time we get triggered and then feeling bad that we got angry again. Dassan dass ji taught us that we must pull out these weeds by the roots. We must look inside and pray to God to show us why we are angry. It's easy to blame others but they will reap what they have sown and we will reap what we have sown. If they did something bad to us then that was their bad deed. If we chose to react to it with anger that was our bad deed. And we will reap more disturbance of mind. Mind will keep replaying the situation to make us more and more angry. Dassan dass ji said ask to be shown all the times we have chosen anger and accept that was a bad choice. That forgiveness is the antidote. Forgive the one who we are angry with. And baba ji said when we forgive others God also forgives us for getting angry in the first place.
When we stop blaming others for our anger and look deep inside at why we are so unhappy then we can ask God to help fix us. To forgive us and to bless us.
In our life we have been angry with our parents, with our children, with our wife, with relatives and child abusing uncle, we have been angry at ourself, worst of all we have been angry with guru and god himself. Once anger takes over it has no limits to who and what it will blame.
It takes time to overcome anger. Baba ji told us we made these mental habits of reacting with anger since childhood so it's going to take a while, months or years to undo those habits.
We remember our wife or parents used to say or do things that made us really angry. Then we would feel bad because we are trying to be on a path to peace but losing it all everyday. So in our simran we used do as dassan dass ji said and accept all our misdeeds in anger as our own mistake. Then wash feet of wife and parents doing haumai nahee tuhitu until we didn't feel angry any more. Next time they would say or do something instead of automatically reacting with anger we noticed we are getting angry. So would say to them, "please stop as I am getting angry. If you don't stop I will leave the room." they didn't stop but before our anger blew up we left the room and went for a long walk to cool down doing simran and ardas.
Next time they would trigger us anger wouldn't even get provoked inside us. We stayed calm and actually were able to listen to their angry words to see if there was actually any truth in what they were saying. Sometimes there was. Eg Wife was angry because our financial situation wasn't good and I was ignoring it. So we solved that problem. Her anger went away. Other times their anger was just for evil reasons and because we are in peace we actually feel sorry for their soul that is a slave to their anger demon. So we pray for them. Dassan Dass ji told us to pray for them to have sat budhi,Truth wisdom, so they too can realise what they are saying and doing is not good.
So in our journey of dealing with anger we went from being unable to stop reacting angrily, to being able to walk out before getting angry, to staying calm to praying for the other...Compassion. Ego reacts with anger. Love reacts with Compassion. That is the transformation that happens when we earn the words of satguru ji.
Then when we calmed down they also calmed down. Then the kids also calmed down because parents weren't arguing and their angry mother wasn't hitting and shouting at them any more.
Has taken many years. Now and again we get caught out again. But God is kind we apologise right away, wash their feet, bless them forgive them. Back to peace.
Then we also saw that once anger is not our master, God sometimes makes us angry when Truth is not being done. So our dad said wrong things, we got angry. Felt bad, told baba ji and all they said was, "did you tell him the Truth?" we replied that we did and baba ji was fine with it. Because sometimes baba ji said that the hard heads need a baseball bat of Truth to knock some sense into them.
Another time our wife was always stopping us going to sangat and got so angry with us. We got fed up and just shouted at her, "we can leave you but not baba ji!' Then she went quiet. We went to sangat and felt very bad again thinking we have lost to the anger demon. But in the sangat we were awarded with a golden sari in dargah.. Accepted as a bride of Truth. We got confused. But realised we stood up for Truth at the risk of losing family attachments. God was showing us we did the right thing.
Satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam satnaam
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There is nothing achieved in being stubborn. Nothing gained in turning your back on the light. No satisfaction in chasing shadows into the darkness. No where to go but back to Truth. O crooked mind when are you going to straighten out? Stop running start praying, praising and doing satnaam.
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Morning walk. Important to stay connected with nature. Go for long walks and do simran.
Gurpreeto
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