Stop nagging your family, even with good wisdom

Satnaam

Sat Naam.    We have been at work this week,  long hours in traveling and out of the house.  Tavleen said to us one evening "dad it's been much calmer in the house without you!"         we said to her,  "we have been much calmer as well listening to our kirtan and doing simran on the train."      Made us realise we think we are helping the kids or wife by telling them "good" things all the time,  but to them we are just constantly nagging or criticising them.     Baba ji said once, just tell them the truth  once that's all. Better to let them grow and learn in their own way,  stay calm ourself do our simran. Trust in God to guide them as he is guiding us.

Dandauth to all.