Don't force kids to marry where parents want

Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam santeh charan hamaro matha nain daras tun dhoor paro Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam we are maha kami krodhi lobhi mohi hankaree sanu bax deho we don't know how to stay humble when gifts come. We have so much faults in our character to work on.  Baba ji better you keep this donkey running in your service wit a big stick on our back side.  When you give us a spiritual treat we relax and turn into a stubborn ego donkey who wants more treat and less seva.   Seva thoree mangan botha.   Keep beating  this ego donkey baba ji,  give the gifts to others who can handle them ji,  just keep us in hard seva.   Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam  we do not stand up against five thieves,  we don't fight against desires, we do t stand up for the gian, we are biggest weakest minded fool.  So many character flaws.  Sanu bax deho.
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Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam ji badee mata ji was saying that the smile on her child's face is her pride, not getting them married where the parents want.    She said parents are forcing kids to marry as parents want, but their kids will not force their own kids later because they don't want their kids to suffer as they did.   So just to save one generation, to keep, their kids married to Sikhs and their own caste etc, parents are sowing chaos.   Baba ji said never break a child's heart.  O would rather see my child happy than crying.   Parents who sow hatred in the kids, will reap kids who hate them. Then when the daughter in law comes they never treat her as their own daughter, they fear she is an outsider and she will take their son and take the house they worked for.     They think daughter in law is going to be devious. Daughter in law  is going with fears.    They should remember this is my daughter from the past.  They should have so much love to welcome her back to love her even more than they love their son. There are some rare patents like that.   Live and learn is maya,  learn and live is bani.   Learn from bani and you won't make mistakes of mistreating others.  Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam
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Tongue lashing kills. In. Every house contact verbal lashing kills the child.   It's even worse than a physical slap.  Kid forgives the physical slap, but constant tongue lashing kills the kid. Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam Satnaam

Meree mat thoree ram tu samrath vada baba ji.